(Closed) Vent about wedding night.

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 18
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@xshellx2003: I agree lol but saying no to family is so hard sometimes =(

Post # 19
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

I don’t see the problem. Lots of couples share the same hotel with their families on their wedding night. We’re going to be and I’m fine with it. As long as they’re not next door, I really don’t think it’s a big deal.

Post # 20
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@xshellx2003: So you’re not even getting a discount either?

Sounds like you two may as well stay somewhere else. I’m not so sure I would want to start my honeymoon at my workplace, when there’s no incentive to do so.

Post # 22
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I wouldn’t want to tell my family no on something like this either. Why don’t you tell them?

Post # 23
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236 posts
Helper bee

So if it isn’t that he wants to spend time with them, then great! No problem!

You should wait until you are less upset, then just say, look we can spend time with them alllllll before the wedding, but afterwards, it should just be us.

Post # 24
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

I honestly don’t see what the big deal is.  Almost every single one of my family members and friends stayed in the same hotel that Darling Husband and I did (and every wedding I’ve attended, the B&G stayed in the same hotel as the vast amjority of the guests).  That’s normal and practically expected, IMO.

As long as they aren’t trying to share a hotel room with you than the location of their hotel room should have zero effect on you and your Fiance what-so-ever.

Post # 25
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

We are staying in a castle where the bedroom doors don’t even lock and they are all right next to each other, so yeah I don’t see the problem at all.

Post # 26
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2008

How are you going to prevent people from booking rooms at the lodge?  If they call in and book it themselves, I don’t think there’s much you can do?

Post # 27
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2010

wow. so you are having guests come into town for the wedding but you don’t want them to talk to your Fiance even though they have not seen him in a while? wow.

why don’t you guys stay elsewhere?

Post # 28
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

I wouldn’t tell anyone where we were staying the night of the wedding. I purposely booked our hotel block in one hotel, and our room in a different spa/hotel. I was concerned DH’s friends might be hammered and come banging on our door or decide to continue the party in our room. No go for me! LOL! It worked out well for us, I was really happy we stayed somewhere else. It was wonderful to see everyone at the wedding, it was great to get back to our hotel room knowing no one else could find us (I told my BMs and our parents) and just have a night with my husband. We all reconvened on Sunday morning for brunch. It was perfect.

Post # 30
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

The night of the wedding, I think it would make sense for them to stay there, but I defintiely wouldn’t want my family there for my honeymoon :-P. How long would his family be staying there?

Post # 31
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I can see why you might not want to stay in the same hotel with them, but your Fiance probably doesn’t want to say anything because there’s no real good way for him to say it without looking bad. “We just don’t want you in the same hotel even though you’re coming from out of town and not even sharing a room with us” just doesn’t sound very good.

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