(Closed) VENT ALERT: Why?!?! So tired of waiting for everything!

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Well, considering that a week ago you posted freaking out about the possibility of forever and having a bit of cold feet, really it’s probably a good thing that it won’t be for at least a few months…right? Not saying that having some ‘OMG forever?!’ feelings aren’t normal, but hopefully in a few months time you can be totally over that and really appreciate everything about the proposal/engagement.

 

And math is the one subject that does make me feel dumb, my eyes just about glazed over just reading that sentence about your assignment, haha!

 

How long are you guys planning on living at a place where his parents are the landlords?

 

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

@Wonderstruck:  +1

@alsgirl:  I’m sure he has his reasons for waiting. Is it possible that he wants to propose then because you won’t be worrying about school or finals (this is assuming you start Grad School in the fall)? Maybe your anniversary or another important date to both of you falls then?

Really, to be completely honest, there’s nothing you can do about the proposal situation. Your time is better spent focusing on your classes (I speak from experience here; not engaged yet, but I find filling your time helps a lot). Can you ask the Professor or a classmate for some help understanding the concepts behind the project? Does your school have a Study Center you can use? Maybe you can go study in the library or something instead of being stuck at home alone?

And if his parents say no pets then you can’t get a pet. Are you renting an apartment or a house from them? If it’s an apartment they may have their hands tied because other tenants could accuse them of being unfair. If it’s a house then you can always ask, but be respectful of their decision. Pets can be messy and expensive to clean up after and there’s no garauntee that the next place you live will allow pets either.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

@alsgirl:  Not too much longer to wait then. πŸ™‚ Just keep your head up and do your best, especially with that freaking project.

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