(Closed) Vent: Bachelor party invitation

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
3697 posts
Sugar bee

Oh, boy. I’m sorry. That just sucks on so very many levels.

Post # 4
590 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

That would drive me nuts… I know my fiance had a couple guys on his bachelor party list that weren’t on the wedding invite list so I made sure they got invites to both…

Might be understandable that the golf outing would be for less people; but NOT understandable that YOU aren’t invited to the happy hour?? Is that just a misunderstanding because it makes no sense!

Post # 5
41 posts
  • Wedding: March 2013

Eek.  There’s no going back on that invite now so try to get over it.  But it does suck.  Are you specifically NOT invited to the happy hour event?  Maybe you can talk to your Fiance and his buddy about that.  “Hey I know the golf outing is a guy thing but since you’ve invited 100 people, guys AND girls to the happy hour…”

Post # 6
9719 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

That is beyond rude!  Surprised  That really sucks.  What a jerk!  I’m so sorry you’re having to deal with that.  Is your Fiance ticked off/embarrassed? This puts him in a bad spot, too. 

Post # 7
11747 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Oh wow.  I would be less upset about the fact the Bridesmaid or Best Man invited all those people (most of the time bride/groom don’t have control over the guest list when other’s are throwing a party for them so I think people would understand) and more upset over the fact it’s a CO-ED party and you’re not invited. I’d show up anyways quite frankly. If girls are allowed there’s no reason you aren’t!  Would your Fiance be upset if you were there? Mine would probably tell me to come!  He may be having his bach party in Myrtle Beach (only guys) and told me I could come along if I wanted (I politely declined!)  

Post # 8
3303 posts
Sugar bee

This is a first, no advice but I hope it all ends well. Some people just don’t understand how this can be rude.

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