(Closed) Vent….BF Seems To Ignore Issues

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
70 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

Absolutely not. You are not bringing up future plans too early. By your relationship length, you should 100% know if you want to settle down with the person. I would hope by 1 year you would have some idea if the person was the one. I really think that maybe he is not ready for marriage.  I do hope I am wrong.

You should talk about the marriage. What if your timeline for kids is different? What if he doesn’t want kids?Where will you live? Is moving non-negotiable? These are all questions you should discuss before you get engaged. Life happens and you don’t want to be surprised post engagement. You need to have a firm talk with him and say that these are things you need to know. Obviously, listen to his feelings and his needs but do not settle for a “we will talk about it later” anymore.

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