(Closed) VENT: frustrated with best man

posted 6 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 4
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717 posts
Busy bee

that’s so annoying, after you confirmed the details and would have had time to find alternatives.  also, you tried to give options and find a solution and all you get is a glib response.  if he wants to be there, he should try.  suck it up for a bus ride.  

Post # 5
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615 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

He’s a grown man. If he wants to accept the honor and role of Best Man, then surely he understands the responsibilities that go along with it. You should NOT have to hold his hand up until the wedding day.

It doesn’t sound like he’s making an effort to accompany you guys to the tux shop. The “I don’t do public transit” comment was rude and a load of BS. If he really wants to be there, he’ll find a way to make it happen. Whatever you do, don’t bend over backward for him because then he’ll just know he can get away with his behavior. Let him figure it out on his own.

 

Post # 7
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717 posts
Busy bee

he’s just proving himself to be a flake and bad best man so try to shake it off and if anything, your Fiance can address it if need by as it is his friend

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