(Closed) *vent* How to get through *being* a grumpy MoH…

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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3866 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@BlueRidgeMere: It sounds like SHE needs the smack upside the head… and not verbal, either!  

Friends do NOT treat friends like this!!!  It just isn’t right.  I know people tend to do that kind of thing to make THEM feel better about themselves, but come on!  You’re supposed to be her best friend.  

I’d just grin and bear it, be polite but cool, and when it’s over and done with, reconsider the friendship.  Then promptly tell her what I though and tell her where she can stick it.  😉

good luck, and sooooo sorry you’ve gotta go through this!!!!

Post # 4
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3943 posts
Honey bee

Ugh, she sounds brutal.

Since the wedding is in a few days, I would just suck it up and get through the day. After that though, I would either let her know how you felt or just naturally let the friendship fizzle out. Its really too bad when friends change so drastically, expecially close friends, but it does happen and you dont need people like that in your life.

Post # 5
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5886 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

You have every right to feel this way. Your only mistake is not standing up for yourself when she started talking to you this way. You are a good person, but you have to learn how to have a back bone.Being a bride doesn’t make it okay to be rude or mean. But you’ve dug your  hole, now you have to silently sit in it.

Good Luck and remember once the weekend is over, you never have to speak to her again…

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

She needs a verbal smack upside the head.  If she starts in on you again, tell her that she needs to butt out of your wedding and your finances and just be thankful for her own.  Really.  She may be “the bride” but it’s not all about her.

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