(Closed) Vent! I think I'm done

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
2260 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2020

It sounds like you’ve recognized the issues in this relationship very clearly and it looks like there really isn’t much of a future there. You deserve to be with someone who not only listens to you, but values you. 

Post # 3
145 posts
Blushing bee

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annabelle90:  Just based on what you’ve written, he doesn’t sound like he is investing the same amount of himself into this relationship that you are. A relationship is a partnership, and you should be a team putting in an equal amount of effort into it. 

Being single for over a year and just focussing on myself (sounds sooooo cheesy when you write it) was the BEST thing I ever did for myself, and I ended up totally by chance meeting my current SO and he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. They say you find your perfect man when you stop looking, or whatever the saying is. If you are trying too hard to find your forever, you’ll force it onto every man you’re with. (does that make sense?)

Post # 4
480 posts
Helper bee

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annabelle90:  I think you’ve hit the nail on the head with your intuition. You’ve also made a self-discovery that is worthy of further exploration. It has been said that until we learn from our mistakes, we do tend to repeat them. I would take a break from your relationship (any relationship), and give more thought to why it is that you may be attracting certain personalities into your life. Being aware is the first step towards finding the answer, as well as the solution.

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