(Closed) VENT In Laws how to deal…

posted 8 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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5654 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2011

Lets just say I’m not my Future Mother-In-Law favorite person… apparently I’m “stealing” her son.

I stay nice and my Fiance and I are setting up and keeping good boundaries & hopefully shortly after the wedding we’ll be moving…. 11 hrs away. lol

Post # 5
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5654 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2011

I will certainly miss my mom (she’s my bestfriend) but we’re moving for more than just that… Fiance has a possible GREAT opportunity there… getting away for mil is just a perk.

You know though.. even before the opportunity came up my mom suggested we move… atleast for a few years.

It’s always something to consider (just so they can get their junk worked on) 😉

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

My future inlaws are all a**holes. I should capitalize that. 

We both decided not to have family in the wedding party (mine and his)because we worried it would stop/inhibit my ability to have fun and enjoy myself on our day.

HOWEVER…

Since making this decision I have discovered that most of my friends regret the peopel they chose for their parties…I am beginning to think I most likely will too. Although family isn’t enjoyable they are family and will always be there.

 

Just think 20 years from now your SIL will STILL ANNOY THE HECK OUT OF YOU 😀 and you’ll have wedding day pics to remind you of it 😉

Post # 8
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6065 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2012

Well, since it is too late to change your wedding party, the only thing you can do now is make the most of the situation.

Make sure you surround yourself with your dearest people- both family and friends. There is no need to include your Maid/Matron of Honor in every single detail. As long as you are having plenty of moments enjoying wedding planning with others that are nicer to you then it won’t feel like such a bummer.

Also…are you considering speaking to her about some of the tension? Or do you feel that would make everything worse?

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2012

@busybridebee: If you really don’t want a close relationship with her, then just have her be less of a “hands on” Maid/Matron of Honor. Don’t involve her in as much as you can (without being super obvious about it) and like I said before, keep your favorite people around you and feel the love from them as much as possible.

Sorry youre in this situation! But don’t let it put too much of a damper on your wedding!

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