(Closed) Vent season: BRIDESMAID drama!!!!

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 17
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5385 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

@ForeverGandJ: She needs to get over it. It seems like you may be better off without this “friend”.

Post # 18
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160 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

@ForeverGandJ:

*God doesn’t like ugly.* bwah! i love it!

apologies, but the more you post about her (talking about friends behind backs, attention-getting fb status) the more i begin to dislike her. sounds like a drama queen showing her true colors.

i would just tell her, “look, this seems like it’s going to be really difficult for you, so i think it’s best you enjoy my wedding as a guest.”

i can’t see her behavior improving as YOUR wedding planning continues.

 

Post # 19
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5656 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2012

Honestly, if she is going to be like this about it I would try and talk to her (in person) and see if you all can be civil about this… if she continues to be childish, I would tell her it’s probably best for everyone if she stepped down from being a bridesmaid.

Post # 21
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3148 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@ForeverGandJ: I kinda have to mention it, because to me it’s obvious.  Isn’t all of this drama the exact same reason why new Bridesmaid or Best Man dislikes the old Bridesmaid or Best Man as a person???  It sounds like what you had mentioned of their initial “dislike”. New Bridesmaid or Best Man had a quick insight to future problems that old Bridesmaid or Best Man can cause/be.  I do not know this people, it’s just off what I’ve read!  So please don’t take offense 🙂

Post # 22
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160 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

@ForeverGandJ:

oh man, rock, meet hard place.

maybe she’ll get fed up and step down (fingers crossed)!

 

 

Post # 24
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2467 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

ick. the bm’s making a mountain out of a molehill, sorry she’s bringing so much drama! sounds like you’re doing the best you can though

Post # 27
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5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

i think you should step away from the keyboard and actually speak to her and say that you are asking her to respect your wishes and they dont have to be friends just polite and be happy for you and your Fiance.  so many things are misunderstood online and can be sorted out if people just speak to eachother

goodluck!

Post # 28
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693 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

You have the privilege at your wedding to choose whoever you wish to stand with you.  Your friend is being selfish and rude.  I would brush it off and if she trys to talk to you about it anymore, let her know topic is not open for discussion.

Post # 30
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447 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

I know what it’s like to have a friend obviously talk about you on Facebook. My friend got mad at me for not being grateful for something she decided she had to bring to my attention. It’s not the same kind of situation, but I thought you’d like to know that someone else has had the same thing happen to them.

It sounds like you handled the situation perfectly. Asking for one hour of peace between her and your other bridesmaid is not too much to ask.

Post # 31
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987 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

ahhhh i wouldn’t even know how to respond to such a high-school sounding moron – no offense to your Bridesmaid or Best Man but her behaviour sounds beyond ridiculous.

Hope you get things sorted.  Good luck hun. 

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