ahsoka : Vent:
The fact that the cycle of abuse is real fucking kills me. I fucking hate when people use Jesus as an excuse for bad decisions. Somehow the two seem to be tied together far too often.
Also when there is a massive fucking underlying problem in another Bee’s relationship and she spends like 8 paragraphs complaining that Darling Husband doesn’t pick up his socks or say “I love you”, and then you find out ten minutes later that he’s fucking beating her, and her excuse is always something fucking stupid like “I didn’t fold the laundry”.
Are you fucking kidding me. God damn. What year is this.
It’s 2019, we all know the statistics. There is no excuse for ignoring the signs then being like “my husband doesn’t love me because his dinner got cold”. Yeah, he punched you in the fucking face this morning, he fucking hates you and it has nothing to do with that Betty Crocker bullshit, so stop convincing yourself he will change. And stop blaming porn and sex and the Devil, quit praying and start packing, unless you want to end up dead.
The small town, damsel in distress, Church lady, “sex is evil” hick bullshit hasn’t been cute since 1954. Read a fucking book. There are hotlines now.
Your husband doesn’t beat you because he had a bad day or because he’s possessed, he beats you because he’s a fucking asshole. Stop it with the “he needs to find Jesus” shit, no he doesn’t, he needs to find a pair of handcuffs and an obnoxiously hung black dude to make him a prison bitch.
My mom warned me about this stuff when I was a kid and I didn’t believe it. I thought it would be easy. If someone hits you, you leave. Period. Done. End. I thought it was like 1% of women who stay, and come to find out it’s everywhere, every time I turn around it’s the same thing. How the fuck does this happen. We put man on the moon 60 years ago, can we please teach our daughters not to take shit.
Adding that I’m gonna get so much shit for this.