(Closed) Vent time

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Oh man that’s tough!  Do you have anyone close by that can help?  If not maybe ask your mom to help with certain things you don’t have to be in person to plan.  Also you have plenty of time to get things done.  Just delegate.  Maybe put one person in charge of favors and another in charge of some other DIY project.  (If they’re willing to help.)  You can also delegate stuff to FH.  Maybe he can work on finding a DJ?  Or something else not girly.  Don’t get discouraged.  You have TONS of time left.  Go get a massage and relax (or take a bubble bath if you’re on a budget.)  Take a deep breath.  Some stuff on those timelines is just stupid and doesn’t need to be done when they say it does.  

Post # 4
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2385 posts
Buzzing bee

Who haveyou asked that lives locally? Do you think anyone would lend a hand?

Post # 5
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18 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Feeling alone is realllyy annoying… I did all my DIYs alone though: invitations (FI helped), seating card, other decorations. Don’t worry, take a deep breath, and go through the plan again, revise if necessary. 

I find most people around me aren’t into doing projects together, that’s why I didn’t ask them for help.

If only I live close to you I’d probably give you a hand. I love projects!!

Post # 6
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I’m at the 9 month mark not one person has asked if I neede help. Not even my bridesmaids. No one cares. So far I’ve done everything myself and Fiance has helped little bit here and there. I doubt anyone will throw a shower for me. I don’t feel like at all. I’m not sure why. I havent made an requests or demands. I am cautious of being a bride zillla so I made it my goal. 

Just be grateful you had some volunteers 

 

i doubt I would get a bachelorette party either. 

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