- 8 years ago
- Wedding: September 2010
Now im wondering why i thought my FI’s idea of flying solo on our wedding day was bonkers… My wedding is in Sep and we decided a year ago as we began to plan we wanted a wedding party. He didnt want a wedding party but suggested my 4 cousins who i was super close with that needed to be in my wedding party so he began to add his family .. his girl cousin and his niece & nephew who are both 19.. We broke it up straight down the middle .. half his family half my family ..
Now also not in good time my Maid/Matron of Honor is moving to another state this month!!
shes comming back for the wedding but its super streswfull on her to plan my bridal shower & other things for me that her role requires.. So i was told June wuld be the month for my bridal shower not to make plans.. As she reaches out to his girl cousin for her she gets the run around and now his girl cousin is not going !!
My Maid/Matron of Honor called me and said ” hey umm i dont want to bother you about silly things but i do think your Fiance should talk to his cousin , because im the only one doing things for you i asked her for help and she refused and said shes going on vacation that weekend… and shes known about the date for 2 months and recieved the invite i sent out last month and she tells me today (3 days before the event) that she cant go.. nor her mom or her sis in law.. “
mind you im in the dark about whats going to be planned for me I told my Fiance and he flipped out called his cousin cursed her out for being selfish and told her why did she agree to be in the wedding party is she was not going to participate in the festivities? His cosuin even lied and said she didnt know that my Maid/Matron of Honor told her to late.. which is a lie !! I feel bad my Maid/Matron of Honor is in a tight situation because she had to air it out but now im feeling like my bridal shower is going to be a pitty party.. Fiance said dont worry you will have fun i took care of it .. but im thinking damn he cousin didnt give to flying flap jacks about me when my Maid/Matron of Honor asked for help.. and she was counting on her for a head count aparently what they were going to do needed enough people and by her not going + 2 the plans fell apart.. Fiance wants to kick her out the wedding party !!
What should i do ? should i ask her not to worry about any more wedding party responsibilities and ask her just to attend my wedding ? I have not gotten involved at all and dont plan to .. but Fiance is really pissed cause last weekend i was up helping his cousin throw a grad party for her brother asking her is there was anything i could do.. YIKES !! what would you do ?