(Closed) Vent: Waiting bee sick and tired of waiting, etc.!

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
170 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I can relate to what you’re saying about needing him to tell you you’re pretty. I know that this issue has caused serious tension in my relationship, to the point of me crying trying to make him understand. His issue was that he prefers to show me that he feels that way, rather than put it into words…which I appreciate, but there’s nothing like an old fashioned compliment.

I think what got through to him the most is me saying that while I appreciate everything he does for me, it ‘s just really important that he verbalize that he thinks I’m beautiful. I told him that it may not seem like a big deal to him, but it made me feel so special and beautiful to hear those words. By saying that I didn’t appear ungrateful for the wonderful way he treats me, but also gave him an incentive to say it more(making me happy!). Hope that helps!

Post # 5
1106 posts
Bumble bee

The whole waiting game is very very hard.. are you still planning on getting married in July of this year?

Post # 6
413 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Doesnt waiting suck to be point blank about it! I am so thankful for WB because there are so many other waiting bees there for support. Since it sounds like you already have started some planning are you just waiting for the official proposal? Are you still getting married in July? If so hopefully it will happen soon for you!

Post # 8
272 posts
Helper bee

so what’s the news since a year ago? Any updates? Couples counseling sounds rough- was this your decision?  Also, how long have you been together?

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