(Closed) *Vent* Why is it so easy for some people?!?

posted 8 years ago in TTC
Post # 17
152 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

You are not alone! I hope you get your BFP soon

Post # 18
132 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013





All I see are pregnant friends on my facebook and instagram…never thought I would be so jealous. Trying to remain content, we are only ttc 2 months but I’m so impatient. Together 71/2 yrs married only 4 months. I really guess I shouldn’t be so annoyed. My friend has been trying so long with many miscarriages and finally had a child, early after 9 weeks in hospital bed rest. She was born a premi at about 28-29 weeks and passed after one day. It hurts me to be jealous of all those preggo. Also I hurt for my friend bc she has been through so much and they are good people.  I will attend the memorial this weekend to honor her daughters life, knowing there is a purpose in everything. ”BELIEVE…DESPITE” God is in control…so don’t lose faith BEE’S! This is their saying through the journey of their daughters conception.


Post # 19
632 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I’m in the same boat with you – wondering why this is taking so darn long!  I guess my story is a little different in that we got pregnant on the first try (just like those fertile teenagers) but had  MC a few weeks later.  Since then though we haven’t been able to get another bfp.  It is driving me insane that I’m doing everything “right” each cycle but nothing has happened yet.  And each cycle that passes I get more and more worried that this is never going to happen :/ 

You’re not alone.  Thank goodness for places like this where we can vent.  In real life everyone I know got pregnant so easily as soon as they wanted a baby.  And the ones that had a MC, they got pregnant the very next cycle.  I don’t know why I haven’t had the same luck, but at least I can say that the other parts of my life are doing pretty well – and maybe I just have to wait a little longer than most to have our dream realized. :'(

Post # 20
5872 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011 - Boy #1 12/2015, boy #2 02/2018

@crayfish:  +100

True about the age thing. 

To the OP, sorry about the wait. You will be a mom one day!

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