(Closed) Vented on Facebook about RSVPs

posted 6 years ago in Paper
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry

might just be the kick in the butt some people need. Only an issue if people who aren’t invited see the post.

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@LovebirdsSC:  i would say no but a lot of people on here are going to say its tacky. 

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I don’t think so.

Post # 6
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2014

Nope, just a reminder! Some people need that kick.

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Ehhh… I would avoid saying anything on FB – unless everyone your friends with is invited.  It could lead to hurt feelings and awkward situations when people realize they’re not invited.

Also, you still have a week before the RSVPs are due.  I bet you get a lot next week – some people are just a little slow (*raises hand*).

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I would have done the same thing!

Post # 9
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I would do the same thing but 90% of my list is not on FB… lol

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I think it’s tacky only because typically the majority of someone’s facebook friends aren’t invited and it’s just a reminder of that… a PM would’ve been better suited IMO. But it’s already done and it’s certainly not egregious lol

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I’d do it. Go tag all the people who need to send it back Tongue Out kidding

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Eh, unless you called out people regarding their specific rsvp’s, then it’s a blanket message and you’re fine.

Post # 14
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Buzzing Beekeeper

It’s not something I would do, only because FB invites drama and huffiness, and people might feel bad they were never invited.

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

If the people invited are huffy or hurt by it, they only have themselves to blame as they are the ones procrastinating!  I doubt that for 75% of every bride’s guest list a week is going to give them some revelation of whether they can attend or not.  For a few, yes, but not that many people every time!!

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

your wedding + facebook = no

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