Post # 1
The last couple of moths i have not been speaking to one of my best friends. but because we have been friends for so long i still felt the need to ask for her to be in my bridal party. she replies with a very bland answer and i was really hurt. we have been through so much together and i cant believe she would respond to me in that way. i know i havent been perfect in getting our friendship back on track but she hasnt either. during our disagreement i apologized twice for my actions and she never bothered. i dont know what to do. should i feel hurt or should i just cut my losses and keep it moving. not to mention her child is my god daughter. i just need some opinions bees.
Post # 3
I vote to let it be and see what happens. Maybe you both need time to cool off and figure out where you want to go from here. I think if it’s important to you to keep the friendship that should be expressed but then back off and give her space. People change =/
Post # 4
I firmly believe that if you ask someone to no longer be in your wedding you will no longer be friends, like ever. So if you decide that you dont want her in your wedding you should really be prepaired to cut your losses completely.
I think that you might want to take a day together and really talk it out. Tell her how you feel, admit to your mistakes, talk about what you can do to help heal the friendship, and what you would need from her also. Be honest, be nice.
If she isn’t willing to work with you to make things better it might be time to truely cut your losses and move on.
Post # 5
Thanks for the help I am really sad about this situation. I am going to continue to pray about the situation. My Fiance is really mad with her because we have done so much for her. He really feels like it is a slap in both our faces (at one time she was living with us for free & i was providing free child care after her break up) But I am just overwhelmed and really dont need this while planning a wedding.