(Closed) Venting – Bachelorette Distress

posted 8 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
4001 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I’d tell your Maid/Matron of Honor to regain the control.  She is the one planning it, she is gonna have to tell the girls that she’s still in charge.  Let her kinda be the ‘bad guy’.  You shouldn’t even involve yourself.  She should come up with the plan and let everyone know, if they’d like to participate- great.  If not- oh well.  Try not to get caught up in the planning of it all, just show up on that day and have a blast!

Post # 4
532 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

How is $33 per person too much money? I’m sorry you are having to deal with this crap. If they can’t afford $33, how do they plan on buying drinks and dinner when they are out that night? $33 is like 3 drinks at the bar or one dinner…

Post # 5
33 posts
  • Wedding: August 2007

In my opinion you shouldn’t even be aware of this situation. I didn’t have any part in planning my own bachelorette party – my Maid/Matron of Honor, maids and gfs took care of everything and I didn’t have a clue what was happening until the night of. It’s very disrespectful of your other friend to take over as it’s really the MOH’s responsibility to plan the bachelorette. Of course it’s great for her to have input and financial help from everyone else but in the end it’s in her hands. I hope your Maid/Matron of Honor is able to take back control and sort out the situation and that you have a great time!

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