(Closed) Venting!!!! Please I need some help ….

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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133 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

How bad was it? She is younger and maybe starving for the attention of your soon to be brotherinlaw Im sure its just a machurity thing. I would hope the smak talk was just that. I know my sisterinlaw and I have had our outs smak talking but shes still one of my besties, you concider this girl family and family gets through this stuff. you might be upset but is it worth the cost of your friendship. On the other hand your honey dont realy like her and you kinda have to take his judgement and feelings on that into concideration. He is your best friend and has your best intrest at heart. Its tough but I hope you all can get it out into the open have at it and move forward being stronger friends maybe? It will take time to heal but if shes like a siter to you, you want her there on your day? Good luck

Post # 4
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401 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

 

first of all, I would not say anything because it would seem kinda off that u were checking another person’s facebook. Although in this case u had a good reason to do slo.  I would cut my losses and  gradually distant myself from her, she is obviouly not the best friend u thought she was so there is no need for her to verify this as she will only come up with silly excuses and piss u off.

If it were me I would take her out my wedding party because having her by ur side on ur wedding day and each time u look at her u will think of the backstabber she is and get upset.  When I take her out I would simply tell her the reason is “you don’t seem too into this wedding mood”

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