- 8 years ago
- Wedding: April 2011
I’m admitting up front this may be entirely ridiculous. Feel free to tell me to build a bridge and get over it. Having said that, here goes…
My fiance and I are planning a wedding at one of our favorite restaurants. There are some weird things about working with them, but it’s all basically okay. We finally got the owner to sit down with us last week and talk things over about how set up would be, which was great. And I was feeling very calmed and good about the whole wedding… until he described the set up for the ceremony.
Instead of coming down a traditional aisle, we’ll have a non traditional set up. There is also a half wall between the area where everyone will be seated and the area where we’ll be getting married.
Now I know this isn’t my first wedding, and I know I’m probably being retarded. But I’m really fixated on not having an asle to go down. I always wanted that and I’ve never really had the chance to plan and execute a wedding I want. And coupled with the communication difficulties and other weirdness, this aisle thing feels huge to me.
I haven’t said anything to my fiance yet. I don’t want to be whiny and there are 100 other reasons why this place is absolutely perfect for us. But the cermeony is really important to me and I can’t seem to get over this. To the point where I’ve researched (not called or visited or anything, jsut looked online at) other venues.
So tell me dear bees, am I being a stupid bridezilla over this aisle? I feel like maybe I am and I can take a dose of reality. So lay it on me.