(Closed) Very Disappointed

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 46
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286 posts
Helper bee

xpretyNpinkStarx:  I’m so glad you moved on from this creep. I wouldn’t take any chances and would not go to this skin care party. It’s honestly not worth it, in the small chance he is there.

Post # 47
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120 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

Darling,

he really isn’t interested in you I’m sorry

 

 

Post # 49
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1452 posts
Bumble bee

If I were in your shoes, I would NEVER set foot in the home of that guy regardless of his sister.  F* that.  It’s been 3 months and if I were you, I would protect all of the healing that I’ve experienced by not putting myself in ANY situation that could jeopardize that.  If the sister is a good friend, then you saying “no” to her and standing firm in your boundaries should in no way impact your friendship.  If anything, she should be protective of you and respect/support you in not having any exposure to her scumbag brother.

It’s painful when the guy you were falling for was only playing around and betrayed your trust in a big way.  Just know it had NOTHiNG to do with you and everything to do with his own issues and being unable to be honest with himself, that if it wasn’t you it would’ve been another girl.  If this guy’s new Girlfriend is causing so much drama and havoc, then it sounds like they are well matched in their inability to be responsible loving adults.

You totally escaped a bad situation.  Keep away from him like the plague and get on with your bad self because there is def an amazing man waiting for you out there!

Post # 50
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1206 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

xpretyNpinkStarx:  How old are you?  This sounds like the drama of a 19 year old.

Post # 51
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2033 posts
Buzzing bee

I would not go to the sister’s house. Sounds like you’re doing great! You don’t need any chance of being sucked back intot he drama.

Post # 52
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824 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Cut off all ties. You are too good for him

Post # 53
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5916 posts
Bee Keeper

I’m glad you’ve moved on from him. It’s understandable that he’s not over his longterm relationship yet and it’s understandable if he’s not ready for commitment into a new relationship. But stringing women along and lying to them is totally not okay. When he was with you he was texting/ meeting Florida girl behind your back- but after you guys called it quits and he was with Florida girl, that didn’t stop him from texting you behind her back!

As for his sister, your co-worker, she needs to respect your decision for a fresh start and that this fresh start does not include going over to her house where her brother also lives. Don’t let her push you into a situation you’re not comfortable with. Tell her that you know he’s her brother & therefore you won’t talk negatively about him etc but that it makes you uncomfortable to hear about him and can she please leave brother and Florida girl out of your conversations. If she’s a decent person and a good friend she’ll respect how you feel. But if she continues to pressure you or keeps bringing them up, you don’t need to socialize with her outside of work, that doesn’t sound like a true friend anyway.

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