- 7 years ago
- Wedding: March 2009
I think you’re doing exactly the right things now. Continue supporting and uplifting him; he will always know he CAN go to you if and when he needs to. He needs that shoulder, and you seem very willing to be there for him. I applaud you for being patient with him, because it’ll make him more at ease when he does reveal things to you. He seems serious about you, especially since he’s saying he wants to be married within 2 years, so trust him on that and try not to worry too much about the future.
Also, it IS a very intense thing to deal with, so see a therapist for YOU while you’re dealing with this. That way, you can be honest and learn ways to handle things when he is having a hard time.
Just saw you are in therapy; good for you!
Best of luck!