(Closed) Very hurtful comments about my wedding photos (again!!)

posted 11 years ago in Emotional
Post # 62
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3098 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

Okay, you may not want to confront her, but I totally will!!!!

And I REALLY REALLY wish I could! I’m actually mad from reading this!!!

Post # 63
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21 posts
Newbee

how incredibly insensitive and RUDE!  I actually yelled at the computer screen when I read what she said about your dear hubby.

You have every right to be upset, hurt, angry, irritated, furious, on a rampage! about this woman’s outright disrespectful and horrific behavior.

Regardless of the reasons she did this (and I’m sure there are many [of her own doing, certainly nothing to do with you]), try to remember that nothing can take away how excited you were to open that album, how thrilled you were to share it with the world, and how joyful you were to commit yourself to your man.  Make this about you, and YOU deserve GREATNESS!

You can always give her a nasty teaching evaluation at the end of the class, too. *mwahahaha* 😉

Post # 64
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Helper bee

Wow, how appalling!!!  I don’t know why, but it sounds to me like she might have a crush on you.  I can’t think of why anyone else would act this way.  Why does she care what your FH looks like?  I’ve only had jealous guys say that to me (I’m better than him, you can do better) and it sounds like she might be doing the same…

Post # 65
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310 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

WOW! I am literally gritting my teeth here. What right does she have to say anything about ANYONE? I would have slapped her across the face, lol. And I agree with MrsBrewer — give her a HORRIFIC teacher eval at the end of the class. And I mean HORRIFIC.

Though, at the end of the day, you love your husband –  why else would you have married him? And your opinion matters the most. I always get tacky comments about my Fiance looking older than he is. 1. His hairline is receding at supersonic speed! lol but I think it’s cute :). 2. He’s a stressed out fireman. 3. His dad looks pretty old for his age as well.

But I really don’t let the comments get to me. I am the one who loves him, not my stupid looks-obsessed friends/family members. I agree with some of the other ladies; she is obviously jealous and probably never took an ethics class.:)

Post # 66
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

OK I didnt read what everybody else put b/c i am just too darn mad! I absolutely whole heartedly believe this woman is JEALOUS JEALOUS JEALOUS!!! anyone who makes comments that mean is just covering to make herself feel better!! I have had to deal with women like this at work, and it was not until much later I relized ppl like that are just so jealous! you have a man that really loves you, and you love back, and you had a beautiful wedding (that i assume she didnt go to), and she is just so jealous that she doesnt have that!

please dont let this woman make you feel inferior, and please stand up for yourself, you dont have to be a jerk back to her, but stand up straight, look her in the eye, and tell her what your thinking.

you can do it!

Post # 67
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10 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: April 2010

Your teacher has totally crossed boundaries that are beyond the point of propriety.

Find another teacher.  Why have you put up with this crap for so long, unless you like being treated this way?

 

Post # 68
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409 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2010

holy insecurity. at least you dont have to talk crap about her life to make yourself feel better, you’ve already won this battle.

Post # 69
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I’m utterly shocked and horrified. I know you mentioned you don’t feel comfortable being direct with her, I on the other hand am a very direct person and would have no worries putting this awful woman in her place…….I almost wish I was in your class so I could stand up and tell her off- rude people like that really tick me off! Maybe you could stay behind one day after class and just ask to speak to her and in a nice way just tell her that her commenst have hrt your feelings and made you feel awkward around her and in her class and that if she has nothing nice to say about your pictures then not to say anything at all. If not then you must change class to avoid being upset anymore. Maybe even report her? I know that sounds a little 6th grade but, she is being unprofessional. She sounds like a bitter woman, maybe she was left at the alter? If so I’m not surprised. I get comments about my Fiance being a red head from time to time or the old comment “He’s not what we expected” in a sort of sarcastic way. Best wishes.

Post # 70
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154 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

WOW she is pure evil and obviously jealous of you.  i think you should do your best to get her completely out of your life and never look back.  she is way beneath you and you dont deserve her treatment.   you should also post some photos here so people can see your special day!!!  

Post # 71
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Newbee
  • Wedding: December 2009

I’m sure your photos are beautiful. Please keep your memories that way. There is no honest and true reason you shouldn’t.

As for her actions, there is no other explaination other than jealousy on her part. The truth is the truth and it is what it is. She is single and miserable and lacks any sense of propriety.

It’s a shame, seeing as how she is supposed to be in a position of leadership and I am assuming is of some age.

Scars can be induced by others, but healing can only come from ourselves. Truth is, all our support (which you have 200%) can help but not completely help you get over this.

There will have to be a moment when you deal with the situation either by direct confrontation (not hostile) or internal acceptance of her faults.

Either way, it is not healthy for you to be around her in any capacity.

Post # 72
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177 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

thats bizzare behavior….especially by an adult woman…maybe shes lonley and jealous…i just cant imagine anyone actually saying these things..horrible

Post # 73
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Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2013

OMG – WHAT A B*&%H!!!! I’d like to say things to her that can’t be repeated here!! Switch classes if you can – she’s RADIOACTIVE with EVIL!!!

Post # 74
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265 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Man, I think you could get away with punching Miss S. No jury would convict you. Good luck!

Post # 75
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252 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

wtf…JEALOUS.

My only advice is to ignore her as much as possible, and pity her IF possible for being such a miserable creature.

If you can, try not to let one small person affect your decision to be in ths class if that is the right thing for you. On the other hand, if it gives you peace of mind, switch.

Oh and, CONGRATULATIONS on your recent marriage and getting to spend the rest of your life with a man you love, who loves you!!!

It reminds me of a family friend…every time I started dating somoene, and told her about him, the first question was, “Is he cute?” ummm….to ME, yes. And if he’s 5’4″, stocky, and wears glasses (which my almost husband is), then who the hell cares, because he looks really good to me!!!!

Post # 76
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Terrible terrible terrible lady! What rude and thoughtless comments!!

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