(Closed) Very lonely tonight :(

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Just out of curiousity, how come you didn’t go with him?

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I know exactly how you feel. Fiance has already left for CA (where we are moving to) and I’m home at my parents until next week. We’ve done long distance before but for the last year, we have been together and its really hard being away. No one can understand how difficult it really is. My sister is laughing at me saying I’m being dramatic but the truth is, it literally PAINS me when we aren’t together and now being 3 times away, the whole in my chest is bigger.

Just keep your head up. I didn’t have many friends where we lived before and when I move out to CA I will know NO ONE. See if there are any young professionals organization around you that might have some things for you to become involved in, or, consider volunteering. Even with the Fiance there, it will help ease some of the loneliness.

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2018

yeah for finding hidden cards!!  weeeee.

i live apart from my husband right now- not cause we want to, but cause we have to.  I too am soooooooooo lonely.  all my friends have moved away, and i’m super broke.  so even on weekends – i just kind of twiddle my thumbs.  My job has even gone down to 4 day work weeks, which sounds great, but that means (20% less salary) and long weekends alone.  

I feel your pain, I’m sorry you’re lonely this week.  but you are in the most fabulous city in the world, make a little list and just get out there and hoof it.  Take a camera and go on a digital safari.  lay in the park (are all those gorgeous pink trees still blooming) go see the Upright Citizens Brigade!  too fun!  

There’s a lot of NYC bees on here, why don’t you float out a meetup invite.  Make a big batch of lemonage and invite all nyc bees to join you at the park and bring wedding mags and swatches and ideas and just have a big ol’ wedding fest.  

Speaking of meetup. Have you ever checked out http://www.meetup.com its pretty cool.

I pour over http://www.oneprettything.com  maybe you will see a nifty craft on there you would be interested in tackling.  That’d keep you busy. 

Chin up lamb chop, he’ll be home soon. and hopefully it’ll stop raining so you can really get out there! 

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2018

yeah for finding hidden cards!!  weeeee.

i live apart from my husband right now- not cause we want to, but cause we have to.  I too am soooooooooo lonely.  all my friends have moved away, and i’m super broke.  so even on weekends – i just kind of twiddle my thumbs.  My job has even gone down to 4 day work weeks, which sounds great, but that means (20% less salary) and long weekends alone.  

I feel your pain, I’m sorry you’re lonely this week.  but you are in the most fabulous city in the world, make a little list and just get out there and hoof it.  Take a camera and go on a digital safari.  lay in the park (are all those gorgeous pink trees still blooming) go see the Upright Citizens Brigade!  too fun!  

There’s a lot of NYC bees on here, why don’t you float out a meetup invite.  Make a big batch of lemonage and invite all nyc bees to join you at the park and bring wedding mags and swatches and ideas and just have a big ol’ wedding fest.  

Speaking of meetup. Have you ever checked out http://www.meetup.com its pretty cool.

I pour over http://www.oneprettything.com  maybe you will see a nifty craft on there you would be interested in tackling.  That’d keep you busy. 

Chin up lamb chop, he’ll be home soon. and hopefully it’ll stop raining so you can really get out there! 

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2008

So sorry that you’re feeling lonely :(. Here’s a big batch of hive hugs coming your way!

Post # 12
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

yeah for the card he left you as a surprise…. what a sweet and special thing for him to do for you!

with everything going on, use this time for "you" time.  relax, have a long hot bath and do your nails, watch a movie you adore ect.  hope the weather clears for you soon and your Fiance will be home

 

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

I just wanted to send some hugs your way….I can completely sympathize with you, when I first met my Dear Fiance and moved to Baltimore I knew NOBODY, that year was the worst year of my life, I had him, but I felt like my entire life had changed, my entire family, acquaintances, friends, ect were all back in Texas. Just make sure that you do things independantly of him that make YOU happy, take a class, go to the gym, meet your neighbors, volunteer your time, if you’re religious find a church, they usually have some type of women’s groups.

I’m so sorry that you are going through this, if you ever feel like talking or just want to vent, feel free to PM me…..Oh! and best of luck with your wedding!

Post # 16
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Aww ((HUGS)) i wish i was there and we could do some girly things. Guess thats what true love is missing your other half when they aren’t around.  Heck i miss mine even when he is at work( I know im a dork). It was really cute that you found the card he left for you,how sweet. I sure hope you get some alone time soon tho it sure sounds like you need it. I haven’t been on this board long but it sure seems like a great bunch of girls here that would help keep you going. Chin up.

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