Post # 1
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Helper bee
Hi Bees,
So on Saturday we saw our friends (who I love!) and the girl of the couple asked me when my boyfriend was proposing, because he had told her husband by end of summer….WHICH WAS LONG AGO! I told her how frustrated I was that he was all talk and no action and I couldn’t wait any longer. She totally understood me and made me feel so validated.
Fast forward to Sunday, I spent the ENTIRE day nervous that he was going to do it. He was dropping signs like nobody’s business! “Things are gonna change real soon.” “your future is gonna shine.” “I just bought something really expensive we have to cut down on our spending” all with a winking tone. We saw his mom who was also asking “so, any new news???” She knows he’s planning on something. He said soon, soon. IT’S ALWAYS SOON! WHY CAN’T YOU JUST DO IT SO IT’S NOW!
I couldn’t eat anything that day. I have a pretty big appetite normally and his mom’s food is amazing. I felt bad, but couldn’t eat anything. He was making me so nervous and upset that he was doing (been doing) all this teasing and he’s just not backing himself up. I hate it. However, I never said anything to him. I kept my mouth shut through all this crap I went through. I feel very proud of myself for that at least.
End vent.
Thank you for reading 🙂
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
- Wedding: September 2014 - Manhattan Church Rec Center
*hugs* You are doing so good! obviously it is gonna happen. Just work out…
Post # 4
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Busy bee
HUGS!! It seems eminent so just keep that in mind!
Post # 5
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Helper bee
Thanks for the hugs! I need to calm down asap lol
Post # 6
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Sugar bee
Ugh. That is seriously frustrating! Good for you for managing to stay silent. I know I wouldn’t have been able to.
Post # 7
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Helper bee
@LiliKitty: Thank you! Trust me, I have never kept my mouth shut. I was surprised that I was able to lol.
Post # 8
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Bumble bee
I seriously don’t get men. Why torture you?
Atleast you kept yourself together, hopefully it happens for you soon!
Post # 9
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Newbee
*hugs*! I would go absolutely crazy if my boyfriend was teasing me THAT badly. But you’re doing great. 🙂 Just try and relax, and it’ll get here before you know it! (And you’ll have to tell us all about it, of course).
Post # 10
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Bumble bee
Kudos to you for not saying anything and being so patient! That’s definitely frustrating that he’s dropping so many hints!!!!
Post # 11
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Worker bee
Wow you did such a good job to keep quiet through all of that!!!!
Fingers crossed he won’t leave u in limbo for too much longer (sounds like he won’t!) 
Post # 12
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Helper bee
Thanks you guys!! You always make me feel better 🙂 I thought it was just me thinking the teasing was bad, but now that you agree I know I am not nuts!
Post # 13
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Blushing bee
@Quackadoo: Good for you for staying silent about it! You did good. It sounds like it will be soon!
Post # 14
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Helper bee
@Hope_To_Be_MrsLovebug: Thanks 🙂 They say silence is golden. I hope in this case silence is engagement lol
Post # 15
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Bumble bee
It must’ve been so hard to keep your mouth shut the entire time but I commend you for managing to do so. Stay strong, keep quiet and don’t give up… sounds like a proposal is right around the corner.
Post # 16
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Bumble bee
awe you are so strong!! He is clearly planning something, I hope it doesnt take him much longer …. hang in there, you are doing SOOOO well!
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