(Closed) very underwhelmed w/wedding anyone else?

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Elope!!!!! Really, a few days i was feeling exactly like you and if we weren’t so close to the day, i don’t know..

My family doesn’t get it either. My friends aren’t involved. Here’ it’s not tradition to have bridesmaids, Maid/Matron of Honor, bacholerets, etc, etc so i don’t miss it. My mum is kind of involved because i made it happen (!) – she’s helping with favors. Mi sister called me the other day and said horrible, horrible things to me, about how far i’ve gone planning for such a “grand wedding” that they didn’t care about. Honestly, i felt like grabbing my Fiance and the money we’re spending and have a fabulous wedding somewehere, just us and our kids.

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Have you asked anyone for help?  I’m sure if you do some of your girls would help.  As far as paying for their clothing I would ask them how much they are comfortable spending and go from there.

Only one of my bridesmaids is in the same city as I am and she has a lot of personal/medical stuff going on right now so she has been kind of hard to get in touch with.  We did however agree to a one Monday a month getting together and do DIY stuff.

Since no one else is here, I’m not having any kind of party or showers.

Sorry you’re feeling this way

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@Rivendeler: “Honestly, i felt like grabbing my Fiance and the money we’re spending and have a fabulous wedding somewehere, just us and our kids.” This is exactly how I feel. I am so over the wedding planning thing. If our wedding wasnt so close I would either elope or do the courthouse thing.

@ OP: sorry to be the bearer but it only gets more stressful when the date get closer. But if your really overwhelmed did you ever think of eloping?

Good luck

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