Post # 1
So my fiancé wants to go to the courthouse and get married and I don’t. To compromise he said we can have a really small wedding! Like 25 guests tops! I am having a difficult time wrapping my head around only 20 or so guests!!! I was thinking 75-100 for a small wedding! How am I going to have a semi traditional fun wedding with only 20 guests???????
Post # 3
Does 20 people cover your immediate family and friends. What about aunts and uncles, grandparents. Sit down with him on the guest list. Sometimes when they see who THEY will have to say can’t come it can change perspective. Also an idea would be to count close family and friends and figure a headcount and then bring up an exact number(start a little higher so he can bring the number down). See if you can negotiate to say 50. This way you could still do the dances etc. For what you have in mind.