Videographer help!

posted 3 years ago in Photos/Videos
Post # 2
1057 posts
Bumble bee

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oconnor210 :  Honestly, I’m with you. I REALLY do not want a videographer – it’s not about money, but the fact that I find most wedding videos really cringey, I HATE having a videographer in my face as a guest, I don’t like seeing myself on video, and I want my wedding to be a wedding, not a music video. I would also be upset if someone wanted to video my wedding.

Anyway, I think if you declined and then hired another videographer it would be rude, but I think if you politely decline and explain the intimate feel and that you are camera shy (even if you’re not) it might be well understood. I personally would not compromise on this 

Post # 3
181 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2019 - Mountains

I agree with PP. I am not a fan of videographers. I swore YEARS ago that I would not have a videographer and I’m sticking to it. I cringe watching wedding videos. Just explain to your uncle that you are not interested in a video but perhaps there’s something else he can do to ‘help’ that day. I agree that explaining your camera shy is a good reason.

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