- 1 year ago
I’ve been to a few Vietnamese fusion weddings and all of them had the visiting of the parent home and tea ceremony. Is it possible to change that part or have other relatives or friends to step in? My fiance (he’s white) and I are estrange from our parent to a point, that any meeting with them have someone sent to the hospital. Most of my relatives except a few cousins refuse to help or give their blessing, while his family, doesn’t like I’m Asian, talk to me as if I’m below them and dismiss any Vietnamese fusion idea in the wedding. Our wedding will be small and be made of mostly friends with a handful of family. I would love to hear ideas and ceremony details to incorporate Vietnamese style into my wedding.