(Closed) Views on Pornography

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: What are your views on Pornography?
    Neither me no my SO approves of it. : (30 votes)
    15 %
    I do not approve of it, but my SO views it anyway. : (21 votes)
    10 %
    My SO views it, and I have no problem with it. : (56 votes)
    28 %
    We watch it together, so it is a non-issue. : (95 votes)
    47 %
  • Post # 3
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    1222 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    Darling Husband & I are both into it, but we don’t look at it w/out one another. And even if we did, I don’t think either of us would care. It is such a non-issue for us.

    Post # 4
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    2871 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: March 2011

    I voted we watch it together.

    I like it, he likes it.  It’s a non issue in the peach house

    Post # 5
    Member
    9029 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Non-issue for me too. But then again it depends. A friend of mine had a guy who was sneakily spending money on porn sites and was registered with many of them. If it becomes an obsession and he lies about spending money on porn, then i would call that a bad habit.

    Post # 6
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    10287 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I have absolutely no issue with porn and I don’t care if Fiance chooses to watch it. Fiance doesn’t watch much porn but I know he has a small collection on the media center. His watching it does not mean he loves me any less or there are any issues in our relationship. If you ask me, its just less work that I have to do! =)

    ETA: I’ve been known to watch it as well but it normally doesn’t do much for me. 

    Post # 8
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    49 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: January 2011

    We watch it together sometimes…apart sometimes. Total non-issue for us. He’s in Hong Kong right now and I’m going to be home alone with youporn.com tonight. πŸ˜›

    Post # 9
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    3564 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    Darling Husband watches it and I really don’t care at all, as long as I don’t have to watch it with him πŸ™‚ I generally think porn looks pretty silly!

    Post # 10
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    2103 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: February 2013

    I like it. He likes it. We watch with each other…and on our own.

    Post # 11
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    1222 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    @FlutterbyBee: But your views are your views. If that’s how you feel then there’s nothing wrong with that. At least your SO understands and respects your wishes.

    Post # 12
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    713 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: February 2010

    we usually watch it together.. we have a few DVDs that we actually went out and picked out together.. its a fun, once in a while, think to do.

    Post # 14
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    1267 posts
    Bumble bee

    I only like good porn, ones with a plot and not too much silly acting πŸ™‚  Him, too, but I have no idea if he watches it alone and I don’t care.  I watch alone sometimes and I’m sure he doesn’t care.  And we also watch together sometimes if we feel like it πŸ˜‰

    I would also not classify it as a bad habit.  A bad habit is one that is unhealthy or has negative consequences, like smoking.  Over indulging in any habit, whether it be gambling, watching porn or model train making is negative, but I don’t think any of those activites on their own are bad since they aren’t hurting anyone πŸ™‚

    Post # 15
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    3613 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    It depends. We’ve both enjoyed it when we were single. I’m not fond of it in a committed relationship. I don’t enjoy looking at it together, and I find it to be somwhat disrespectful to look at it alone. If he still does it occasionally I hope he keeps it to a minimum and I’d rather not know about it.

    Post # 16
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    1480 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    @luckyprincess: I didn’t know good porn with a plot and not terrible acting existed!!

    Porn’s not an issue for us. We don’t usually watch together unless we saw one that’s really weird or funny and want to share. πŸ™‚

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