Post # 1
Since I recently recommitted to my faith, I am interested in views on sex before marriage for the second time around.
I was a virgin to my ex-husband (he wasn’t) and the sexual chemistry was not there. We were together for 26 years. I was engaged but recently my ex-fiance walked out.The physical side of our relationship was fantastic and I realise that sexual chemistry is very important as well as a loving relationship. (I have posted about the details of the breakup)
I am not interested in seeking a relationship yet, this is more me making decisions on my beliefs and boudaries for when I am ready to venture out again.
Your honesty is appreciated and thank you for participating.
Post # 3
I didn’t wait nor have any qualms about not waiting with my first husband. Second time round it was VERY important too me & even after my now Darling Husband and I “slipped” we worked to recommit that area of our lives to Christ and refrained, letting Him restore us in the areas that were the underlying issues of us having not been able to hold off to begin with.
Scripture is so clear that sex outside of marriage isn’t condoned… regardless of why you find yourself outside a marriage relationship.
I will also say that I fully believe, from how I know God, that if you follow Him and allow Him to direct your relationship, and whom that is with, He would NEVER leave you wanting in an area so important. If He can bring a faithful, trusting, strong, honorable man, he can bring a sexually satisfying one! My Darling Husband was a virgin before me (me being the one with a very colorful past) and I can 100% say that not only is he the best I’ve EVER had, it’s much better as husband & wife since letting God work in our area of intimacy pre-marriage how He instructed.