(Closed) Virgin or not?

posted 11 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Are you a virgin?



    No, but not having sex again until I'm married

  • Post # 47
    206 posts
    Helper bee

    I’m not… that was gone a long time ago… but I know a few people who are, I give anyone who can wait total credit bc I 1) know I couldnt and 2) think you need that kind of connection with someone before you marry them and know its a good connection (IMO)

    Post # 48
    1756 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I have spent greater than half my life being a non-virgin. 

    Post # 49
    5282 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2009

    I waited till I was 21 & lost my virginity to my now husband ๐Ÿ™‚ He def was NOT one!

    Post # 50
    3979 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2012

    I’m not a virgin, but I do wish that I had waited until I had met my Fiance. ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 51
    1335 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    I lost my virginity to my Fiance. He’s actually my first and last for everything (including “real” kiss!), and I love that.  He was only intimate with two other people before me.  I actually know several virgins and people who waited for marriage  and applaud them for abstaining. Part of me wishes I had, but it just wasn’t for me ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 52
    7774 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    Not. Only one guy before Fiance, though.

    And for pretty hilarious reasons, I don’t know that I even count him.

    Post # 53
    873 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 1969

    Nope – but I was for much longer than many people I know.  I know some virgins (mostly for religious reasons).  However, most intercourse virgins I know are not sexual-experience virgins.  They’ve all been pretty close to the deed. 

    Post # 54
    7052 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I’m a mom.  And an Encore bride!!!

    As Kramer said five minutes after “the bet” on Seinfeld…

    “I’m out!”

    But T and I do wish we’d met in college and been with each other ever since.  I <3 my Fiance so much!!! 

    Post # 55
    888 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    neither of us are, and i’m pretty sure that none of my friends are either.  I can’t imagine getting married and not knowing whether or not we’d be compatable in the bedroom… i think people often forget how important intimacy is in a relationship and if you aren’t compatable in the bedroom, that definitely (at least in past relationships for me & my girlfriends) has led to problems in the relationship.

    Post # 56
    1454 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 1969

    We’re not, but Fiance was when I met him ๐Ÿ˜‰

    I know a lot of virgins, none that are currently engaged but a few that waited until they were married. Sometimes I wish I did!

    Post # 57
    183 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    Oh dear I thought it Said Virginian..

    oops ๐Ÿ˜‰

    Post # 58
    264 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: December 2013

    I lost the V-Card after 2 years of dating and after I had already graduated high school- and I was STILL the first by several years in my group of friends to have sex. It wasn’t until this past 6 months that the last 3 of my friends lost their V-Cards at 23. According to pretty much everybody I’ve met since, we as a group of friends were a bit of an anomaly though.

    Post # 59
    401 posts
    Helper bee

    I’m also an Encore bride but even before that I wasn’t and before I met Fiance I went thru a very “rebellious” stage as well.  lol

    Post # 60
    15 posts
    • Wedding: December 1969

    I was up until. . .7 months ago.  (I was 24 at the time. . .the oldest virgin I knew.)  The only guy I’ve been with, though, is my fiance.  I’m actually really happy about that.  He, however, was not.  (I mean. . .he’s got 2 kids and a fairly crazy past. . . Innocent)

    Post # 61
    1732 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I know a handful.  They all have their own reasons for waiting.  I respect the choice, since they respect mine to not wait.


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