(Closed) Virgin or not?

posted 11 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Are you a virgin?

    Yes

    No

    No, but not having sex again until I'm married

  • Post # 107
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    Wannabee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    My Fiance and I both are. 21 days to go!!!!!

    Post # 108
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    Virgin? Huh? Haha! Noooo my FH and I both had other experiences before meeting each other and I’m glad we did! You get to learn what you like, what you don’t like, learn new things, become better at it, have fun with it— I couldn’t imagine being a virgin in a relationship; I feel like an entire puzzle piece would be missing. What if you get married and the guy is totally lame in bed, or he cant turn you on? You could go your entire life having blah sex and you wouldnt know it bc you never had anything outstanding to compare it to. However, I 100% understand why people remain virgins until marriage and I respect that. I just know I couldn’t do it!

     

    Post # 109
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    Honestly I’m glad I wasn’t a virgin when I met my SO. We are deeply in love but also have a strong sexual attraction 🙂 

    Post # 110
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I haven’t been a virgin in years.

    Post # 111
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2015

    I’m not, but due to the distance, we don’t have sex very often. I have no idea when the next time will be.

    Post # 112
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I am proud to say that I will be a virgin until my wedding day (only two more days to go and I am currently on my period?) I have done other things but not full on sex. Mine is due to beliefs. I have a friend who isn’t religious and she still hasn’t lost her virginity. We are both 27, so yes – we do exist!

    Post # 113
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    Helper bee

    I’m not a virgin. My BF was when we started dating, but it only took a couple of months to change that for him. Part of me wishes that I had waited for him, but part of me is also glad that I didn’t – because of the pain. Losing my virginity was excruciating! My second time having sex was with my BF, and it hurt nearly as bad as the first time, since he’s significantly bigger than the first guy. If I had been a virgin at the time, I honestly don’t think it would have worked out too well – I was in tears by the time my current BF managed to penetrate me. So I’m glad that I had already been stretched a bit before, but I do think it would have been nice to have waited for the guy that truly cared about me. 

    i know a few virgins, at this point. Mostly my awesome, awkward geeky friends who are more interested in costume conventions than men, lol. 

    Post # 114
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    I may know one virgin. I say may as she certainly hasn’t had sex for a very long time (agsin very religious) and I assume she never has but I’ve never asked. She’s getting married in a few months so then I will be down to lnowing none.

    Post # 115
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    @Rosie Girl:  I believe about half of my friends are virgins, some because of religious reasons and others because they haven’t met the right person yet. We’re all in our early twenties though and I didn’t lose it til I was 20.

    Post # 116
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    10635 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: January 2011

    DH and I were until the wedding night.

    Post # 117
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2015

    Virginity never meant much to me. I barely even remember how/when I lost it! I’ve never been a total vixen or anything, and my “counter” is waaaaaaay lower than any of my friends, but the myth surrounding THE FIRST TIME always seemed like bullshit to me. Safe sex, on the other hand, was super important.

    Post # 118
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    679 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2015

    Lost my V card at 18 to my first love. It was a beautiful experience.

    I did a lot of sexual things for the first time with my husband. I never felt comfortable enough to try certain acts with anyone except him.

    My husband would not have married me if I was a virgin when we met. Nothing wrong with waiting; just a personal preference.

     

    Post # 119
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

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    @TakeTwo:  Do you mean he would’ve broken up with you at the beginning (even if you wanted to have sex then) or he wouldn’t have married you if you wanted to keep on waiting?

     

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