- 4 years ago
- Wedding: February 2014 - Windstar on Naples bay
I know that this day and age it’s very common to live with their SO and do everything a married couple with. I grew up in a very traditional family and always felt that marriage was special and sacred (even outside of a religious view point.) before my FI I was in a 5 year serious relationship and we both chose to wait and now my FI has the same values and view points as I do so we have also decided to wait. So that’s about 10+ years of choosing to not have sex… So in other words I am a virgin… And so is my FI. I feel a little ackward that at my age were still virgins, because it seems like we’re the outsiders, but my close friends think it’s awesome we have such will power. (And I can’t tell if my parents believe me when I tell them I still am) I mean don’t get me wrong, were still intimate to some extent… But we’ve never had actual sex.
So I guess I’m trying to see if I’m not the only out there? Or if I am (I doubt it to some extent) if I can get any advice from the ladies who may have done it or just advice in general on what to expect, how to make it even more special etc? I just wanted to chat about this…
Alo advice on BC would be helpful… i really dont want to take the pill or any other type of BC out there… but am also fearful that a condem might not be enough and he kind of wants to do it without? so what do you suggest. (im weird and dont like the idea of taking things that will alter my body… i dont even like tampons because they technically arnt supoused to be in there. i know im weird.)
(Also is it weird that I worry about having picked an ivory dress despite the tradition of white? Even though I’m guessing the white of old days was more ivory just because they don’t have all the fabrics and treatments we do today?)