(Closed) Visiting ILs Issue

posted 3 years ago in Married Life
Post # 47
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Helper bee

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LadyBear :  It helps so much to be clear on the issue, which you are. I think your suggestions to your DH for your next visit all sound wise. Also, I’m not telling you that you have to be paranoid, but I do suggest keeping your feelers out there for indications that your Mother-In-Law might be using manipulation tactics next time you see her. It might prompt a discussion to help make your boundaries clear. It’s also important for your DH to be on the same page as you and remember that, when you visit his family, you’re visiting as a unit. He’s not going back home to his primary family. You’re his primary family, and you’re visiting together. Keeping that in mind really does help – it helped me and my DH a lot!

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