- 6 years ago
- Wedding: December 2011
Last year, my husband and I went to the courthouse, signed papers to be married, and went back home…lol I’ve been plotting on having a wedding ever since but I can’t decide whether to have a traditional wedding (vow renewal) or just go off with just the 2 of us again. I really want my dad to walk me down the aisle b/c I felt like I robbed him of the opportunity (and I want it for myself as well). What’s bothering me is the fact that if we have a traditional ceremony, it will be mainly my family b/c my husband does not have ANY good relationships with his family. I really don’t want it to be one-sided. If we go off, my dad would have to pay to come, as well as my mom, and it would be too expensive for them and for us. I’m not sure what I’m asking, I think I’m just venting and want to get some reassurance….