(Closed) vow-renewal….he's doing it for a different reason then me??

posted 4 years ago in Vow Renewals
Post # 3
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Sugar bee

@megan331979:  I think your argument got a little carried away if you are going to cancel the vow renewal over it.  I would let it blow over and not worry abou it.  His comments don’t seem like a big deal to me.

Post # 4
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Buzzing Beekeeper

The end result is the same – you’re having a vow renewal. The motivation for each person doesn’t need to be the same.

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

I think you’re overreacting a little. He wants to create new memories with you. Not sure why that’s bad?

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee

Since what he said sounds like it came out in the middle of an argument, I am going to ignore the tone in which he probably said it and just focus on the words:

It sounds like he doesn’t want your first wedding to be the memory you go back to when you think about a wedding. He wants you to have fresh wedding memories about you and him. 

I think it’s rather sweet, and that the way he said it to you is not how it sounds when he thinks about it. I could be wrong of course, but, forgiving the way he said it, it sounds like a very nice reason to renew your vows. 

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

My husband and I are doing our vow renewal for different reasons.

One huge motivation for my husband is remorse over the aspects of the wedding that he ruined. He also wants me to be happy when I think of marrying him. My husband is also being more vocal about the plans this time around; when we got married he left it all up to me. Now my husband is more opinionated which is very touching.

I’m just happy that my husband would like to have a vow renewal. I don’t care what the reasons are.

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