(Closed) Wait to TTC or pull the trigger??

posted 5 years ago in TTC
  • poll: When should we TTC?
    Start in January : (6 votes)
    8 %
    Start right before the wedding in March : (16 votes)
    21 %
    Wait until the honeymoon in May : (53 votes)
    71 %
  • Post # 3
    3718 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    Here is my thoughts– you can get pregnant on the first go. If you do, you could be sick during your wedding and your honeymoon. You could be prohibited from doing things and would just not enjoy it as much. Or it could be wonderful, you don’t know.

    You have plenty of time, so I would say wait until your honeymoon. 5 months is nothing in terms of a lifetime and it will allow you to enjoy your honeymoon and the wedding (and have a glass of champagne to celebrate!). Once you are back, enjoy the babymaking process!

    Post # 5
    992 posts
    Busy bee

    @PinkPanda:  agree with the PP. you dont know how your body is going to respond and you dont want to risk being miserable at the wedding, just my personal opinion. And if you are already off BCP and your cycles seem pretty regular, barring any extenuatin circumstance, you should be fine and conceive relatively soon. 

    good luck, hoping for your BFP !!

    Post # 6
    2118 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2015

    Exactly what was already said. I would definitely wait.

    Post # 7
    458 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    Is the reason you’re thinking of TTC early because the length of your cycle changed? I just want to let you know that’s a toooottalllly normal thing. If anything, you should wait until after the wedding to TTC if you’re having any stress or anxiety, since the extra cortisol in your system could actually affect the fetus.

    If you haven’t read it already, “Taking Charge of Your Fertility” is the bible on knowing your cycle and what it all means: http://www.amazon.com/Taking-Charge-Fertility-Anniversary-Edition/dp/0060881909/ref=sr_1_1

    Post # 8
    3351 posts
    Sugar bee

    @PinkPanda:  I’m old fashioned so I would at least wait until after the wedding. Unless you have any reason to suspect that you would have trouble conceiving (i.e. you have PCOS or endometriosis, etc.) I would not worry about that. 31 is NOT old, and really should not be a factor in ease of conception. If you cannot go on your honeymoon while pregnant due to whatever activities you planned, I would personally hold off until after. If you guys are just so so excited to do it and that is your priority above every other plan, then heck, go for it!

    Post # 9
    5660 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2012

    Jumping the gun up to now probably won’t make a difference in your adventures in TTC. And your cycle changing doesn’t mean you have anything to worry about either! Just try to relax, and go with the plan! You could get pg right away, it could take a few months, it doesn’t matter if you start now or in may.

    Post # 10
    11747 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I’d wait personally but I was pretty miserable in my first trimester – nausea, exhaustion, acne, bloating, you name it.  You could feel great if you’re pregnant on your wedding day, or you could feel like total crap. You just won’t know so I’d never  plan to get pregnant before hand.  Waiting a few months isn’t going to really make or break anything.

    Post # 11
    1564 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I would wait until after the wedding. I felt sick for the first five months of pregnancy and I would not have wanted to have my wedding during that time. It just would not have been a good experience. You just can’t predict what pregnancy will be like.

    In terms of worrying about being in your 30’s and TTC, there is really no indication that 30’s = infertility. I’ve seen many people on this board get pregnant at your (and my) age.

    Post # 12
    1031 posts
    Bumble bee

    I would wait until May. The first 10-12 weeks of my pregnancy (I know they are all different) was hell. I woke up feeling like I was hung over all.the.time (nauseated, couldn’t eat, starving, exhausted, couldn’t sleep, insanley thirsty, couldn’t keep down liquids..) I could not imagine trying to plan a wedding feeling like total ass all the time. I would also want to be able to enjoy my honeymoon without thinking about the peanut. What if you’re high risk? or on bed rest? Ugh that would blow.


    Post # 13
    1153 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    @PinkPanda:  My first trimester basically sucked! I wouldn’t want to be a bride/planning a wedding during my first tri. You can totally get pregnant on your first try, I did. Maybe if you tried the month before your wedding then you’d be getting a BFP at our around your wedding day but not really having any of the symptoms yet. Just a thought…

    Post # 15
    2321 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Hmm… I suppose if you are getting anxious with age, you can start 1 mth before the wedding. That 1 mth won’t make you terribly sick as opposed to being 5 mths (if you were gonna get preggo in Jan). I am 32 and just TTCing now. I waited until now because I didn’t want to take on the responsibility of a baby right after a wedding. I wanted to enjoy our ‘we’ time and get to know each other really well. As much as we thought we knew each other even after staying over at each others’ places, turns out living together under one roof is a whole different ball game. 

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