- 5 years ago
- Wedding: July 2014
Unity4life is not always true! If you are reading this and you are a believer seek counseling before making any drastic steps. If God meant for you two to be together wait for marriage counseling, especially if you have been divorced in the past. I have plenty of friends that have done this quick dating for six months, engagement and married immediately. Here’s the problem that I have seem with my friends. They have not gotten over their previous breakup so they tried really hard to find someone to remove the pain. Instead of getting help with a counselor they found another person quickly and ended up in divorce. Yes, some of the marriages lasted about two years or so but in the end they divorced. I speak from experience. I dated a guy that was in a relationship for six years before I met him. He broke up with that woman and dated me only a month after his breakup. I feel he never really got over her and I could tell during our marraige. We thought we were meant for each other but now I’m divorced. Spend time meeting his/her family before you make any decisions. The faster you get married the faster I feel you will end up in a divorce. Get marriage counseling before considering getting married. Divorce sucks!