(Closed) Waiting and “officially” moving in…

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

i’d say keep it in storage.he loves u and u love him but untill ur actually married anything can happen.

best of luck

Post # 4
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Bumble bee

I would be concerned until I had a ring and a date.  I agree with bird to keep your stuff in storage.   Best of luck and welcome!  Laughing

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Good luck with the move! It might be safest to keep it in storage, at least until you get past the first few months of officially living together. And when you feel comfortable that everything is going in the right direction, then you can sell it and put it towards the wedding!

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

I agree, definately keep it in storage until you have a ring on your finger. Dont want to focus on the worse but better to have some sense of security.

Post # 7
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Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2010

i had basically this exact same situation however i didn’t ever move in “officially” with my now Fiance.  i too was essentially living with him while paying rent at an apartment in town.  i kept in the back of my mind that if we broke up it’d be hard enough dealing with that on its own without worrying about also finding a place to live.  that said, when it came time to sign my lease i said to my Fiance, “we’ve been dating now for two plus years and we’ve talked about marriage and getting engaged.  i love you and i want this to be forever.  i’m signing my lease again but i do not want to be in this same situation next year.  i feel like i’m throwing money away, money that could be saved for the two of us or spent on a different apartment.  i’m not putting pressure on you either way but just know that this is the last time i’ll sign this lease.  next year if this is where we are i’m finding a new place, one without a roommate, and once that is done you better believe i’ll be spending time there as opposed to faux living here.  we can still date but unless we are engaged there is no point in playing house forever.”  i dropped it for the entire year and lo and behold we got engaged before i had to sign again!!  all that said if you are moving in with him i would definitely keep your stuff in storage…just to be safe.  because, like i felt, a breakup would be one thing…you don’t want that on top of starting completely over!!

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