- 7 years ago
- Wedding: March 2014
So my boyfriend(of 7 years) and I have this guy friend. We have known him for about 4 years now. He has always had different girlfriends, coming and going, in and out of his life. He has never been serious about any of them whatsoever.
Well, he met this new girl about a year ago, they moved in together, dated 6 months, and got engaged in less than a year. I have met her three times. First impression was not good. First, her and her little sister made comments like “ I’m glad we are wearing no makeup, so we can swim under water”, “ Who are you trying to impress”, “OMG, you, like, wouldn’t want to mess up your makeup and hair!” Okay….I am 25 and this is exactly why I have very few friends. I can’t stand catty girls. Also, I didn’t plan on swimming. I just got off of work and I wanted to soak in the hot tub and relax with a beer. Not jump, slide, and swim in the pool. Shame on me??
Anyways, she then continued to ask her boyfriend (whispering in his ear) how long me and my boyfriend have been together? He then asked us….We said 7 years. She just had this look on her face (like really?). It probably wasn’t apparent to her because she was all OVER her boyfriend… well, we are not huge on a lot of PDA . It was kinda sickening in a way and annoying. It was almost juvenile.
The next time we all hung out, we went fishing. They asked if i wanted to get in the boat with them. I wanted to stay on the dock with my boyfriend. She made some comment like, “will you be okay? Alone here?” Mind you, alone meant, with my boyfriend of 7 years…So, yes, I believe my 25 year old a$$, will be just peachy with my boyfriend of 7 years.
Bottom line, it irks me that they got engaged so fast, they said I would like her, and I don’t. I have been in this relationship with my boyfriend for 7 years, I know the proposal is coming soon, and he has told me so… I just have no patients with this girl!!! and waiting!!!
Am I being dumb about everything in this situation or am I just overreacting?
Can anyone else relate to being around sneaky catty girls? Or just, catty girls in general..( I swear it’s like everything is a competition!)