Post # 1
I am having such a hard time with the waiting these days. I am trying so hard to stick to the V-day challenge (and I haven’t really brought it up since October, so I’m doing okay), but it’s really hard. All the jewellers here are having January sales, so I keep thinking that this would be a perfect opportunity for him to buy a ring. But of course, I can’t say that out loud and it’s so frustrating…
Another thing that makes me so sick and tired of waiting is that practically all his friends have asked me lately if I think we’ll get married, and some of them have even asked me IN FRONT OF BF!! So of course, I can’t say much because I really don’t know when we will get engaged.
Just had to vent 😉
Post # 3
I feel for ya:) Good job on the challenge…less than a month to go!
Post # 4
Keep in mind, if you’ve both had a discussion about marriage and know where you both are wanting to go, he may have a good reason.
My dh was waiting b/c he was paying off my engagement ring. In cash. And it was somewhat expensive too.
That’s a good reason and I can’t ever fault him on being so smart! He’s a finance saavy kinda guy.
Post # 5
@bellenga: Yes we’ve discussed it several times and we both know that’s where we are heading (he will even bring it up himself, without me having mentioned it). We’ve even discussed getting married the summer of 2012, but I won’t know if he’s serious about that before he’s officially asked me… I am just very frustrated right now because I don’t know what the hold-up is.
Post # 6
@BellsforHer: I am so with you there! My boyfriend and i have been together for 3 and a half years and everyone is asking when we will get married. He is definitely coming around but I know it won’t be on a holiday (he said so himself!). Just gotta keep waiting! Why is it that us girls are always ready before the boys??
Post # 7
I just want to support you on the challenge- you are doing such a great job- keep it up, even though it is KILLING you inside!
Post # 8
Thanks ladies,feeling a bit better today 🙂
I am going on holiday with a couple of girls I know from university next week, so that will take my mind of the engagement issue for a week!
Hope you’re all doing okay for the Valentine’s Day challenge 🙂