(Closed) Waiting but have already picked out a wedding date?

posted 9 years ago in Waiting
Post # 47
756 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I am waiting.. and have 100% confidence that we are getting engaged by the end of this year.. but know not much else about when where rings etc. 

BUT we have chosen a tentative date that we have not shared with family and friends. it is just so that we are on the same page and it came up becuse we are coming into his religion and are trying to figure out money .. it made thngs easier to have an idea of when we were actually going to gt married. We have a unique situation so that is why we have discussed it.. by no means do I feel or he feels that we are engaged because he never has technically ASKED me nor do I have a ring 

Post # 48
445 posts
Helper bee

my SO and I are very open about our plans, so even though I am still waiting, we have already decided when it will be. Actually I mentioned I was thinking October or so of 2014, and he mentioned that he would rather have it sooner after I graduate, so we thought about it and are now settled on June 2014, though we will not be making these “plans” public until i’m engaged

I think it depends on the couple and how open they are about discussing their future plans. For us it was definitely a joint decision to think about when we want to have the big day. 


Post # 49
1850 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@ImagineDragon24:  I’m in the second group too. 🙂 We talk about weddings/getting married everyday. Sometimes he starts the conversations, sometimes I do. If I hadn’t changed my mind about the ring and chose another one, it would have already been ordered. But I know it’s happening at least by the end of the year (by the way he’s talking, most likely November). But more than likely, once he has the ring, he won’t want to wait that long since he’s so excited. 🙂

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