(Closed) Waiting chat part 4!

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 167
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

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@MaidMarian: I’ll volunteer to be your new waiting buddy, seeing as I’ll be stuck here awhile I’m afraid πŸ˜› Might as well make the most of it! 

Post # 169
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2017 - Bristol zoo

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@oriskany:  Yaay! πŸ˜€ I’m expecting to be here for a long time as well so we can keep each other company <3

 

 

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@aithinne:  oh c’mon girl! You *can’t* say something like that and not share at least one photo! πŸ˜€ unless maybe it’s super duper hush hush?

Post # 170
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

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@MaidMarian: Hahaha, don’t worry dude! Looks like I will be keeping you company for quite some time! I’ll try to get on and post more often…for some reason I tend to still lurk quite a bit (mostly out of pure laziness!) so I’ll show myself more often πŸ™‚ 

Post # 171
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2017 - Bristol zoo

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@oriskany:  don’t worry too much lol :3 it’s just nice to have a designated friend lol (i know I’m a freak XD). I don’t really post all that either but that’s more because after about half a year of posting I started to realise that “waiting things” rarely ever happen to me and I didn’t have anything to contribute ^^;

Half the time I feel more like I’m waiting to be waiting! XD

Post # 172
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

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@MaidMarian: That’s totally understandable! That’s definitely one of the reasons I don’t post too often. Waiting moments are pretty few and far between for me too, unless I bring it up. Sometimes he seems weirded out when I bring it up and sometimes he opens the flood gates and wants to really discuss marriage/kids/etc! He’s such a weirdo, I definitely don’t appreciate the mixed messages so I’m trying to control myself now. I totally failed at the SIUP, haha. 

 

We looked at rings and then he changed his tune about the timeline, so I think I’m back to “waiting to be waiting” as well! Do you think it’ll happen for you guys in the next year or two, or do you have absolutely no idea? 

 

Post # 174
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

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@aithinne:  Lovely! It has such an elegant silhouette! Hope you enjoyed the dress shopping πŸ™‚ 

Post # 175
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

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@oriskany:  Actually I bought it online, then took it into the store when the sash came in. LOL I got a great deal on it, paid 118.00 for it. It’s an out of date style, but it’s what I’ve always envisioned wearing. It’s not alteredyet, so it’s a tad long and a bit big in the bust, but overall, I’m pleased as punch.

Thank you. 

Post # 176
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

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@aithinne:  NO WAY. What a steal! Do I spy some detailing on the bottom of your sash?    

Post # 177
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2014 - Loft

I just had to have a HUGE waiting chat last night. We’ve been together for a year, but know we both want to get married….to each other. Last night he responded to a mutual friends wedding invitation for both of us as count metin + 1. I was floored. It may not be much to some people. But the fact that were still not an “us” to mutual friends shocks me. He is fully invested in our life, he just doesn’t want to lose his sense of self, and I wouldn’t want that for him either. I said 6 months or I walk. He said it will definitely happen in that time andI’ve has thought about the ways for the last 8 months that he will do it. I hope I don’t make a liar out of him because in this instance it doesn’t pay to call someone’s bluff. 

 

I feel for all my other waiting bees. It will get there and if it doesn’t we control our destiny. Well wishes to you all! 

Post # 178
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2014 - Loft

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@MaidMarian:  Haha nice to meet you and welcome. 

Post # 179
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2014 - Loft

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@oriskany:  I am also a lurker. 2 years now on the bee. I’m trying to post more because I realize what a wonderfulforum it is for so many topics. Nice to meet you virtually and good luck with your waiting! 

Post # 180
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

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@missjz: Hi! Nice to meet you! I know, everyone seems like such good cyber-friends here, so I want in on that support network πŸ™‚ I can use all the support I can get during this waiting process, since none of my friends or family memebers really seem to understand. It’s a weird thing to talk about in person. 

Oh no! That must be such a rotten feeling regarding the wedding invitation, I’m sorry πŸ™ Crossing my fingers for you that he gets going on the proposal soon!  

Post # 181
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2014 - Loft

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@oriskany:  Thank you so much! I think sadly when we have these conversations with people we m is they all have their own opinion.  It’s nice to discuss them with like minded people in similar situations. I hope yours comes quickly as well! 

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