(Closed) Waiting chat?

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 332
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2018

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@braverbeating:  Confusing story. The username givemecouture was changed to vanillabean25 so that it can no longer be searched in WB or Google.  

It is me. I deactivated that account and started a new one (which is this account)… I got some unbelievably rude messages on that old account so I decided to start new.

Post # 333
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2018

So…. apparently I’m getting engaged in May.

Post # 334
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2017 - Bristol zoo

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@orchidaloha:  Weey! That is a lot sooner than August! How exciting <3

 

Just think, in 31 days time you could be sporting a new ring πŸ˜€ Best of luck to you x

Post # 335
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2018

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@MaidMarian:  I don’t know, I don’t have a lot of faith because it’s been a year of this BS with him but we’ll see. May 31st is the anniversary of us getting our house (we lived together before that in his house but this one we bought together) and I told him last month that I agree with my friend and my brother’s fiance that living together for more than a year without any kind of future wedding plans is ridiculous at my age. I think he listened!

Last night we were driving and he randomly asked me how long we need an engagment to be in order to still get married in 2013. I said 6 months. He asked if I still refuse to get married in December, I said yes. And paused for a little and then said, “ok cool, so May engagement is it”.

Post # 336
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2017 - Bristol zoo

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@orchidaloha:  At least it’s a shortish deadline so that if it comes and passes you’ll be fairly certain on where you stand. And it’s something he set himself with (what sounds like) little prompting from you – so he’s putting that standard to perform on himself.

 

You’re a storng lady and I’m really hoping this works for you xx

Post # 337
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2018

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@MaidMarian:  Thank you! I hope so too… after all we have been through lately I really don’t see us lasting through this if he does it again.

He emailed me some wedding locations yesterday while he was at work and I didn’t even respond. He asked me last night if I saw them and I said yes but I didn’t talk about it… I’m so tired of talking about it when there’s no action!

Post # 338
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Bumble bee

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@orchidaloha:  that is awful that you were getting some mean messages!

but congrats on the upcoming engagement!!

Post # 339
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

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@orchidaloha:  how exciting πŸ™‚ I can’t wait to hear the engagement story!!! 

Post # 340
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

I’m having a good waiting day today.. I miss my SO because he is away for work and I just can’t stop thinking about how much I love him and how lucky I am to have him in my life.. he truly is amazing <3 

 

how is everyone else going???

Post # 341
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2018

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@Brickette:  Thank you!

 

I’m so antsy it’s unreal right now!! The receipt is gone so I can’t look at it anymore to see what it was and he has been talking about wedding plans again. This time more serious though. I told him not to talk about anything wedding related unless we’re engaged and he got all sad so I told him to plan a wedding and I’ll show up. An hour later, my inbox gets flooded with possible venues, and all of these ideas he has. He’s still dead set on October or November so I told him that if he’s serious then I need to get a dress like yesterday and I said it stresses me out just thinking about getting one that fast. So he asked me what I want and said he would find me one.

I can’t take it anymore. I wish he would either propose or just tell me we’re waiting, I’m SO sick of hanging on like this!

Post # 342
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2018

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@Brickette:  Aww that’s so sweet!! I love days like that πŸ™‚

 

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@braverbeating:  I don’t know, I find that some people on this site just seem very unhappy in their day to day life and so they have to be rude to others on the internet.

 

Post # 343
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

Waiting is going ok for me, mainly becuase I just don’t have time to think about it. My placement is stressing me out so much that if I think about waiting too I will probably combust.

Post # 344
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

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@orchidaloha:  I honestly don’t know how you are keeping it together right now! I would be a wreck, especially if he is sending you venue ideas!!! I’m sending some major HURRY UP vibes your way πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ 

Post # 345
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

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@LittleWigeon:  how long have you got left on your placement? All I can think about is my interview on monday, I’m so nervous and I can’t think about anything else. I’ll be so happy when it’s over now, aha. πŸ™‚ SO mentioned us saving for a wedding yesterday though!

Post # 346
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

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@PenguinLove:  My last day is 27th June. Had a better day Friday and got a good week ahead πŸ™‚

Yay for him mentioning saving for a wedding! I had a whole load of engagement dreams last night (why couldn’t my brain have just left it at the sticky toffee pudding dream?). I woke up a little grumpy because I didn’t sleep well as a result… tried to explain waiting to MrWigeon using a science analogy. He got it, but there was no progress..!

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