Post # 1
have been trying to stick with the Mr. Bee plan… making plans with girlfriends, jumping back into old hobbies, working out, NOT talking about the subject, but I slipped last night after a few (way) too many drinks and picked a fight with the Boyfriend or Best Friend. I said a few things that definitely hurt his feelings because now he is just so beyond angry with me. We ended up having the biggest fight we have ever had and now I wanna try to talk through it, but I feel like that will just make it worse.. ugh
Post # 3
Just give it time. My boyfriend and I have had some pretty big fights before but in time we always talk through it. Just tell him you’re sorry and be reasonable with him. I’m sure he loves you and will come around.
Post # 4
I’m sorry to hear that. Oddly enough, SO and I had a fight last night too. Haven’t talked to him all day today yet.
I would just wait maybe until tonight to let him cool off. Last thing you want is to talk to him while he may still feel hurt/angry since he might start saying things to you that he doesn’t mean, but is just in the heat of the moment.
It’ll be okay.
Post # 5
Aww sweetie Im so sorry:( Give him some time to cool of and maybe you two can rationally talk about this when emotions calm down a bit..
Oddly. My SO and I had an argument today (Not a fight really) but he told me he felt like I was pulling away from him because I WASNT talking abut the future anymore with him. He told me he didnt know if someone was telling me to stop, but he misses it and wants that part of “us” back.. I guess maybe the plan doesnt work for everyone.
Post # 6
I agree, it is best to allow the both of you time to cool off. Try sending a text or email if you feel like he might not want to talk to you right now, that way the “balls in his court” and if he responds, you know its probably okay to go ahead and call to apologize. Everything will be fine… I think something like that has happened to all of us. I know I have done that before. Good Luck!
Post # 7
Oh yea I have totally done this before. Its soo frustrating when you get tired of waiting. I would agree with everyone else wait till some time has passes then have a talk about what was said.