(Closed) Waiting for a forever job to ask?

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
408 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

My Fiance is the same way.  He didn’t propse until he got a more stable job.  However, he will never be in the same job forever.  He’s always looking for the next bigger better job.  Drives me nuts haha.  We’ve been engaged since April, and he’s already got a prospective new job he might be starting after the first of the year. 

Just be patient 🙂 Have you told him your feelings on waiting X amount of years? Maybe if you both have a goal he’ll try to get his job situation where he wants in that time. 

Post # 4
1365 posts
Bumble bee

@RoseyBee: My guy is the exact same. We can’t get engaged until we can pay for the wedding. Even though we will both be bringing in £38k combined next year, and can work out the maths that says we can afford a wedding in a couple of years, there is no chance he will let us plan it without the money saved up…. and preferably a mortgage too!!! But honestly, it’s the best way to be. Imagine being with someone who just spent and spent and racked up debts! That would suck, in my opinion. Better to have my man and wait for him to feel confident that we have the money to follow through on our plans 🙂

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