(Closed) Waiting for a proposal from the love of my life…

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
  • poll: Do you think I will get a ring soon?
    Yes : (18 votes)
    37 %
    No : (11 votes)
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    Not Sure/Maybe : (20 votes)
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  • Post # 3
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

    If you’ve been snooping maybe he’ll wait till the last minute to buy the ring so you don’t ruin it for yourself =) I don’t think you have anything to worry about.

    Post # 4
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    Bumble Beekeeper

    It does sound like he’s planning on marrying you, yes.  But like….good luck with that rule that you don’t call or text the opposite sex.  I know that wasn’t the point of your thread, and that you’ve said it works for your relationship.  It just screams “unhealthy and immature” to me.

    Sorry, I don’t usually post negative comments but that disturbed me a little.  Good luck with your proposal!

    Post # 8
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    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2012

    It does really sound as though he’s getting ready to propose soon.  Based on his reaction, more than likely the text was about a ring order, at least hopefully. 

    And btw, my Fiance and I have the same agreement you two do, neither of us feels it’s necessary to have phone calls or texts from anyone of the opposite sex (except family members) for the most part.  And we are the furthest thing from “unhealthy and immature.”  Every relationship is different and whatever boundaries work for you both and make you both happy is definitely VERY HEALTHY.  In our case we are both happy with it and sounds like you are, too.

    It sounds as though your guy is planning a sweet surprise for you.  Some of the things you mentioned that he said are the exact words my (now) Fiance said to me as well, right before he proposed.  Good luck, I hope it happens for you soon!

    Post # 10
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    Worker bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    Sounds like he’s going to propose real soon, try not to spoil it and let him surprise you πŸ™‚

    And maybe I’d question it if it take another 4 months or so for him to pop the question…

    As for not texting/calling the opp. sex – to each their own.

    Post # 12
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    Worker bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    So excited for you! Stay positive πŸ™‚

    Post # 13
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2013 - An amazing non-profit retreat

    Just so ya know… my fiance said he would never propose on a special occasion like christmas or a birthday. He swore up and down. Well, he got me good because he proposed on my last birthday!

     

    Your man sounds super sweet and I am sure that you will be engaged soon πŸ˜€

    Post # 14
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I’m less concerned about you getting engaged and more concerned that you guys don’t trust each other enough to allow the other one to have friends of the opposite sex who are close enough to call or text. Yikes.

    Sounds like you’ll get a proposal relatively soon.

    Post # 15
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    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2012

    @crayfish:  My Fiance and I trust each other completely, but neither of us chooses to communicate in depth (by phone, text, email, whatever) with anyone of the opposite sex.  Neither of us happens to have any close friends of the opposite sex, but we have many close friends of the same sex. 

    But we would never be judgmental of other people’s relationships if they do happen to have friends of the opposite sex.  This works for us and we are both happy with it.  We have an extremely mature and healthy relationship regardless of the fact that neither of us gets phone calls or texts from anyone of the opposite sex.  What you’re saying doesn’t make sense to me at all.  If we are both happy with it, the way OP and her SO are, why is it a problem?

    Post # 16
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Yes!! soon! enjoy the waiting!!

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