(Closed) waiting game

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
3115 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2018

Can you talk to him about a timeline? I think you’ve been super patient. If my SO had the ring for that long, I would totally start to think he just didn’t want to move the relationship forward. You can speak in generalizations but I think it’s best to ask what his intentions are. Good luck!

Post # 4
409 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

Maybe he is waiting for the prefect moment! My H2B and I spoke about getting engaged about 3 months after meeting, and he asked me if I’d say yes if he asked me before we’d been together a year. I said no! Haha. 

We then planned a holiday and he organised the whole thing so he could ask me at the perfect moment! 

So maybe he is just waiting for the perfect moment! But granted, it is a long gap!

Post # 5
1069 posts
Bumble bee

I would definitely have a serious talk with him about where he’s at and find out if there is a reason why he is waiting.

I admire your patience, I would definitely not be able to wait as long as you have!

Post # 6
481 posts
Helper bee

Yikes! Talk about keeping you on the edge of your seat!

Hopefully “the perfect moment” is REALLY SOON!! 

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