Post # 1
Ok, I am 21 years old and will be getting married next year in May. I will be 22 at the time of the wedding. So for about 3 years now (before and during my relationship with my fiance) I have had the WORST case of the baby blues. I cry about it at night and my heart drops to the pit of my stomach when I get the phone calls from all of my friends that are pregnant or have had kids (non of which are married or live on their own). I have a beautiful home, I have lived on my own for 3 years, I am going to be done with college in about 6 months to a year, and I have been with my fiance for 2 years now. It kills me to think about planning a wedding when all I want is to be married so that I can have kids (he wants to be married first, which is understandable). I just dont know what to do anymore. The engagement got my mind off of it for a little while but its starting to creep back up on me! I just need help. I cant stand it anymore 🙁
Post # 3
I hear you. I definitely encourage you to look into getting a pet or if you have any friends/relatives, try babysitting. I know how you feel. My three cats are my babies right now…I have much waiting until I can have a human one.
Post # 4
I’m babying my pets right now as well. Babies won’t be realistic for us for a while since we are just starting out in our careers and I want a new house and more money saved before we start trying.
Post # 5
Yeah, the pet thing helped for a little while, but I cannot get anymore because of the stupid pet deposit that we would have to give our landlord. Its just become such a thing to deal with, esspecially since I should be excited about planning my wedding, not just hoping we can get married asap to start having babies. 🙁
Post # 6
i had the exact same problem.. i wanted to get married, he he wanted to do it before we had any kids. i had cancer a few years ago and had a scare that it may have been a now or never, and can’t get it off my mind since.. next week is my first ovulation bc free and i just can’t wait!!!