(Closed) Waiting is making me an asshole.

posted 4 years ago in Waiting
Post # 2
752 posts
Busy bee

That would bug me too. I’m sure it’s coming soon! Be patient! 

Post # 3
264 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Yeah that would annoy me too.   It would have been nice to have engagement news to share at thanksgiving. 

Maybe he is trying to surprise you which is resulting in him putting it off.

Post # 4
7413 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

If you’ve got a venue and a date, and you’re planning a wedding together, you’re engaged, not “waiting.” Congrats!! Enjoy your engagement and try not to let the actual proposal be a source of irritation. Keep things in perspective.

Post # 5
2587 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

tm6173:  I came in here too applaud you on your self-awareness. Lol!

But actually your partner is being a bit of a dick. I understand not wanting to be bugged. That was seriously the worst thing about being engaged for me. Three months of relentless, well meaning wedding nonsense.

PP is correct though – you’re already engaged if you’ve both agreed to marry. Now you just need that blasted ring on your finger! I hope he gets a move on…Congratulations in advance!

Post # 7
1703 posts
Bumble bee


How long have you been together?

Post # 8
136 posts
Blushing bee

tm6173:  Hi there, I really wouldn’t worry! He will get there! My Fiance is an incredibly private person and hated the idea of telling everyone about our engagement. At the time I remember this REALLY made me panic! A few months down the line everything is booked in and the ‘fuss’ has died down now and he’s happy as larry and is loving the Pinterest wedding boards . Try to remember not everyone like’s all the attention an engagement brings, perhaps suggesting ditching an engagement party or doing a low key announcement will spur him on? 

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